Confirmation

We were at docs office 11am sharp, there were 3 people ahead of us, We were both nervous and just hope for the best, the time seem to take extra long for each patients turn and minutes were like hours.

Finally it was our turn, Dr. Sudha greet us with a smile and when we told her the news she immediately crossed her fingers and lead us to the examination bed. She was just as excited as us and she said lets see... Everyone was nervous especially Lita, my mind was blank as I just follow the ride and take whatever heading my way.

Dr. Sudha wipe the gel on her tummy and put the Ultrasound sensor and walaaaa..

This is the moment, tears was almost flowing from Litas eyes, she had prepared all her life for this moment and it surely meant so much to her. It was her mission in life to bring a child into the world. I just stared at the monitor in disbelief. So I'm really a father and what am I supposed to feel and how am I supposed to react? I just smile and again with the blank thoughts on my head.

We print this photos and sat down on the consultation table, and I began the Q&A, first thing is, so what are we supposed to do? Dr. Sudha explain first thing we must do is relax and just enjoy the moment. However we should be very careful for the first 12 weeks, she says our child is now estimated to be 5 weeks old and this is the critical moment.

The chances in the first 12 weeks are 9:1, and the remaining period is 99:1, its a high chance but then again we should be extra careful, she advice not to make long distance trip like travelling overseas. I ask if she should take special diet and to my surprise she explain that at this moment the fetus is too young and wont be too demanding in nutrition, it is only after 16 weeks that the baby will be growing big enough to consume plenty.

We should stop any chinese herbs that we've been taking, and the reason being we've no idea whats the ingredient, Dr.Sudha shows us a serious face and told us that we should keep the celebration to ourself for the first 3 months and I responded yea I know as I'm pantang too, she looked at me and said "NO" what I meant is just incase if its not meant to be she would be very sad and I just dont want her to be bugged by friends and relative calling and bombarding her with question which would lead to depression, she said she had seen many and its not easy to deal with.

She just tell us to do what we normally do and she would prescribe us with 2 sets of pill, 1 is folic acid which would help in the development of the head and spine and another is Duphaston, Synthetic hormone similar to the naturally occuring sex hormone, progesterone, for making the womb strong. We were told to come back 2 weeks later as she wanna see the heartbeat of the baby to confirm everything is in order.

Well, the ride has began and this would really be a trip, we will pray and we will hope that God blessed us with a healthy baby, we pray God would help us and make the journey as smooth as possible and make this the best trip of our lives.

signing out now...

BTW, Dr. Sudha Kumari is an Obstetrician and gynaecologist

attached to Hospital Pantai Indah.